Sunday, November 12, 2023

The Courage to Be Disliked

The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Funitake Koga (2013) 270 pages

Very readable book that uses theories of psychologist Alfred Adler to show how to change one's life. The theories are done in the form of five dialogues between a philosopher and a young man, with some useful repetition to help the ideas stick.

Some of the ideas that form these theories: 

  • one's life is not determined by one's experiences, including trauma 
  • people can change when they're unhappy, but they often find use in NOT changing
  • wanting recognition, or living to satisfy others' expectations causes one to be unfree and unhappy
  • one gains happiness with contributions to others


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