Showing posts with label social media. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social media. Show all posts

Sunday, November 9, 2025

Talk to Me

 

Talk to Me by John Kenney (2019) 301 pages

Ted Grayson has been in the mainstream media for his entire career, the last 20 years as an anchor for his network's nightly news. He's used to getting attention and is a bit of a prima donna. On the evening of his 59th birthday, he's already upset because his wife is going to leave him and because he and his twenty-eight-year-old daughter are estranged. He has a substitute make-up person, a young woman from Poland whom he imagines is mocking him even though it's not true. He blows up just before he goes live, while she's filming him with her phone to show to her sister. The make-up woman is fired, and because she no longer has anything to lose, she uploads the video of Ted's vitriol to social media, where it goes viral. The result is that Ted's long career is in jeopardy, as well. Meanwhile, Ted's daughter, Franny, has been tasked by her odious boss at a social media company to do a write-up about her father to capitalize on all the clicks this will generate. 

The novel traces human frailties, especially regarding miscommunication, which seems to happen so very frequently. There is also discussion of the failures of mainstream media versus the unregulated world of social media.


Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Careless People

 Careless People: A Cautionary Tale of Power, Greed, and Lost Idealism by Sarah Wynn-Williams, 382 pages.

Sarah Wynn-Williams was the Director of Public Policy at Facebook for many years, and this memoir gives a chilling internal look at the unbelievable irresponsibility of Facebook as an organization and especially of the people at the top. Although the generalities of Facebook's many crimes are pretty much public knowledge, the specific incidents Wynn-Williams describes still manage to be shocking, as she describes how carelessly the people running Facebook move through the world, completely unbothered by the harm they cause. 

This book manages to be personal while still feeling very focused on Facebook as an organization, which is a difficult line to walk with memoirs that are also informative about a topic. This makes this book very readable. The events are often dark, but it almost feels like watching a train wreck, and I couldn't look away. This especially feels like an interesting companion piece to Maria Ressa's How to Stand Up to a Dictator, which is another memoir about how Facebook undermines democracy, but from a very different perspective. 


Saturday, May 31, 2025

Vera Wong's Guide to Snooping (On a Dead Man)


Vera Wong's Guide to Snooping (On a Dead Man)
by Jesse Q. Sutano (2025) 324 pages

Vera Wong was too good to have just one story, so she's back again. In the first Vera story, Vera Wong's Unsolicited Advice for Murderers, the lonely 60 year old Chinese woman investigates the death of a man she finds in her tea shop, and also brings together a group of people into a "found family." In this continuation of her story, while she is still so happy with her new family members, she misses the thrill she had while investigating the murder. When Vera finds a nervous young woman with a story about a guy who has disappeared, Vera hops right to it, trying to figure out what happened to him. Part of the difficulty is that he went by a number of different names.

Vera is an excellent cook who makes the best Chinese foods, often transporting them to people who have no idea what a delicious feast is in store for them. (Hmmm, is she buttering up possible witnesses in order to get more information? Quite possible!) She also has the ability to brew up just the right tea for any given situation. And did I forget to mention that she is rather strong-willed and pushy? Yes, she's all of that. And once she learns how to use social media to send out videos, she goes viral, gaining information, but putting herself and her family at risk. The charm of Vera and her ever-growing family makes this story a quick and surprising read as we learn what secrets the witnesses have been hiding.

Wednesday, April 30, 2025

How To Stand Up to a Dictator

 How To Stand Up to a Dictator by Maria Ressa, 309 pages.

In this book, Nobel peace prize winner and journalist Maria Ressa examines the forces that are giving power to authoritarianism and taking it away from journalists. Ressa traces her life from the Philippines, to growing up in America, then moving back to the Philippines to work as a journalist where she helped establish CNN in South East Asia and eventually founded her own online news organization, Rappler. Rappler was hugely successful, but drew fire from the government when they refused to stop covering the crimes of the Duterte regime, leading to Ressa being charged in enough criminal cases to go to jail for life if she is convicted. Ressa also shines a spotlight on the ways that social media actively aids the creep of authoritarianism and the misinformation and polarization of populations. 

This is a book that feels very relevant to the current moment. As Maria Ressa points out in her book, problems the Philippines experiences are often seen in other parts of the world a few years later. Ressa draws on a wide variety of experiences to issue a warning that is very easy to understand. It is just a little unfortunate that a lot of the book reminds me quite a bit of an extended college admissions essay. I do still think it is an important book, and it would be absolutely indispensable to anyone interested in the effect of social media on politics. 

Monday, March 3, 2025

Superbloom

 Superbloom: How Technologies of Connection Tear Us Apart by Nicholad Carr, © 2025, 272 pgs. 


HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. I loved everything about this book. Nicholas Carr takes the title from a 2023 news story about a canyon in California that experiences a surprise 'superbloom' of poppies, due to excessive moisture in the region. The natural phenomenon turns into chaos, as hordes of influencers descend upon the canyon, take selfies and trample flowers, ultimately causing authorities to limit access to the area--and finally causing blowback on the influencers for the stunt in the first place. Carr asks--if communication technologies are typically viewed as something to democratize mass media, thereby making us more free, more safe and more connected--then why is the opposite happening? Why are we separating from our loved ones over culture, why are kids becoming screen-zombies, and why can't our politicians actually connect on solving issues? Carr takes us on a well-researched look back into the beginnings of communication tech and how we got to now. This is practically a philosophical treatise on the inequities of digital communication and how, in the internet's current version, it's tearing apart the fabric of society one thread at a time. There is much to learn here and the prose is thoughtful without being overwrought. My favorite line, in reference to the allure of social media: "Poppies are lush, vibrant, and entrancing. They're also garish, invasive, and narcotic." A must read for anyone who's questioned why our society has gone mad. 

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

Between Friends and Lovers

Between Friends and Lovers by Shirlene Obuobi, 357 pages

Dr. Josephine Boateng has thousands of social media followers who tune in for her humor and candid attitude toward health and self-love. While she's super-confident in front of the camera, her off-screen life is much more complicated, with a long unrequited crush on her rich playboy best friend, Ezra, keeping her from dating seriously. But when Ezra takes his new girlfriend's side when Jo calls her out as her high school bully, Jo has had it and decides to plunge into a new relationship with shy novelist, Mal. Mal's dealing with his own issues (among them: impostor syndrome when his debut novel gets picked up for screen adaptation and baggage from a long-term toxic relationship), but as a longtime Instagram follower of Jo, he's willing to give this a try, especially when he finds her as charming in real life as she is online. But will Jo be able to let go of Ezra's hold on her so that her relationship with Mal can flourish?

This is a winning romance with plenty of clear communication (what?? that never happens in romance novels!) and a distinct lack of guys fighting over the girl. Honestly, my one complaint about this book is that Mal is just too perfect a guy, though that's probably not a bad thing for a romance novel. Well worth a read.

Monday, December 23, 2024

What Happened to Nina?

What Happened to Nina? by Dervla McTiernan, 322 pages

Nina and her boyfriend Simon have been dating for several years when they decide to spend a week alone at his family's vast country estate in Stowe, Vermont, hiking, climbing, and generally enjoying the mountainous landscape. But when Nina doesn't turn up at home when she said she would, her parents become panicked and are convinced that Simon knows more about her whereabouts than he's letting on. Before long, the search for Nina has become a social media sensation, with increasingly crazy conspiracy theories and slanderous spin against both Simon and Nina's family (though the latter is at least partially fueled by Simon's wealthy and influential parents). Still, Nina's parents just want to know what happened to their daughter... but will they ever find out?

Based on the 2021 murder of Gabby Petito, this fast-paced thriller keeps you guessing as it bounces back and forth between points-of-view of Nina's parents, Simon's parents, the investigating police officer, and even, in the foreword, Nina herself. It's compelling and surprisingly fresh, given the "ripped from the headlines" nature of the book. A good quick read.

Monday, April 8, 2024

You Will Never Be Me

You Will Never Be Me by Jesse Q. Sutanto, 336 pages

Seven years ago, Meredith was a social media influencer on the rise when she met Aspen, a woman who was struggling to find her own footing in the cutthroat social media world. Meredith took Aspen under her wing, and showed how to grow her following. But as Aspen became more successful and eventually bypassed Meredith's follower count, the dynamic of their relationship changed — what looked peachy on the outside was rotten on the inside, much like the social media personas they created. With heightened competition and cutthroat tactics, who knows what they'll do to get ahead of each other.

Prior to this novel, Sutanto's novels have been funny and filled with quirky characters that you'd love to spend time with (even if it's just a short period of time because they're a LOT) — see Dial A for Auntie and Vera Wong's Unsolicited Advice for Murder. This book, however, is a straight-up thriller with absolutely despicable characters (with the exception of six-year-old Elea, who I think I would get along with quite well) doing horrible things in the name of self-promotion and garnering a few more likes on Instagram. And you know what? Sutanto nails it. This book is full of slowly ratcheting tension, crazy twists, and everything you want out of a psychological thriller. Plus it drives a stake through the heart of influencer culture. Absolutely fantastic, and I can't wait to recommend it to everyone.

*This book will be published August 20, 2024.

Thursday, August 31, 2023

How to Do Nothing

How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy by Jenny Odell, 232 pages

It's really hard to summarize this book, as the title is not really an accurate indication of the contents. I picked it up (well, checked out the downloadable audiobook anyway) in the hopes that Odell would offer some tips for, or at least a treatise on, avoiding the anxiety-inducing vacuum of social media. And I *think* that's what she set out to do. But the book didn't feel very cohesive, in that it meandered from her musings on noticing birds in her urban environment to David Hockney's photo collages to the earliest versions of social media (a couple of publicly accessible computers networked in the Bay Area) to the need to pay attention to inequalities and keep fighting the good fight. With a more accurate title and a more cohesive throughline, this could've been an enjoyable book. But as it was, it was just meh.

Thursday, August 17, 2023

The Fixer Upper

The Fixer Upper by Lauren Forsythe (2022) 286 pages

Aly runs into a former boyfriend and was startled to learn that he was married and doing well and that he credited his success to her, for pushing him to make some life changes. Aly's work friends, Tola and Eric, note that she's really good at this kind of thing, and as a lark, they start helping women they know by injecting themselves into situations where they play-act near the woman's partner, which helps move that partner to make some changes in how they behave, improving the relationships.

Their Fixer Upper group becomes so successful that they are approached by Nicki, a well-known social media influencer, who would like for them to get her boyfriend to propose marriage to her. When the boyfriend turns out to be Aly's old best friend from high school, whom she has now avoided for fifteen years, she finds herself feeling conflicted. Added to that, she has been dealing with her divorced parents' issues and her quest for a promotion at work. 

This is a fast read with many memorable and/or likeable characters.



Monday, June 20, 2022

The Throwback List

The Throwback List by Lily Anderson (2021) 391 pages

Jo handles social media for her Silicon Valley employer until she's laid off when the company is acquired by another company. The 26-year-old reluctantly returns home to Sandy Point, a tiny town in Oregon, where she'd hoped to never have to return when she left for college. In Sandy Point, her old best friend, Autumn, has long ago cooled to her because Jo didn't work at maintaining the friendship. Jo's parents' next door neighbor Bianca (another high school classmate of Jo's) is newly married, managing her family's tattoo parlor, and looking out for her aging grandmother. Bianca has never been happy with Jo, but has been best friends with Autumn for a while now, ever since they found each other at the same college.

Jo finds an old list in her childhood bedroom that she and Autumn had composed back in high school, which contains a range of activities that Jo wanted to achieve before going away to college. The list was mostly unfulfilled. Jo makes it her mission to work on the list now while she applies for jobs. The first item she completes upon her return to Sandy Point is to TP the tree at Bianca's house, much to over-worked Bianca's dismay.

As the characters awkwardly reconnect, I found myself starting to root for all the main characters, maybe even more so for Bianca than Jo. It was a fun read.

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Lost in the Valley of Death

Lost in the Valley of Death by Harley Rustad, 286 pages

Justin Alexander Shetler was always a person interested in exploration and isolation. He learned how to live off the land at a young age, and connected his spirituality to nature and learning about the world. He was also a handsome social media star who documented his world travels through his Instagram and Facebook pages. Seven years ago, Justin traveled to the Parvati Valley in India, a place known for its seclusion and spiritual pilgrims, and also as a place where foreigners have often gone missing, never to be heard from again. As can be assumed from the title, Justin vanished there, during a multi-day hike to a lake with a spiritual guru.

Rustad tells of Justin's life before his final voyage, but he also offers up tales of others who have gone missing in the Parvati Valley, as well as the many theories for what happened to them. I read this with a bit of a cynical eye, perhaps because I'm a bit skeptical of anyone who talks about dedicating their life to connecting spiritually or physically with the natural world but doesn't leave Instagram behind. However, I may be in the minority here, as Justin certainly had a lot of followers, and his disappearance was certainly intriguing. Give it a read and let me know your theories.

Monday, April 12, 2021

First Comes Like

First Comes Like by Alisha Rai, 414 pages

YouTube makeup guru Jia Ahmed has been chatting online with Bollywood star Dev Dixit for almost a year when she finally gets the chance to meet him IRL. But when she approaches him at a party, he doesn't know who she is. With both of them facing pressure from their families to settle down with a nice partner, the pair decides to pretend to date... which goes about as well as you'd think. Soon, they're head over heels in love with one another, but completely afraid to share that with each other.

The third in Rai's Modern Love series centered on couples who meet online before hooking up IRL, and while I love the way Rai has translated the meet-cute and mistaken-identity tropes of romance to a modern social media-based world, this one falls a bit flat for me. Both Jia and Dev's cultural backgrounds shine through (I particularly like how Jia marries fashion and makeup with traditional Muslim attire), but something about their relationship seems a bit lacking to me. The previous entry in this series, Girl Gone Viral, is far superior, so give that one a read instead.

Friday, April 2, 2021

Are We There Yet?

Are We There Yet? by Kathleen West, 340 pages

High-end interior designer Alice Sullivan has a picture-perfect life, with a gorgeous house, two well-behaved children, a successful lawyer husband, and a cute dog. But while at a parent-teacher conference for her second-grader (who, it turns out, isn't doing so well in reading), Alice receives an emergency call to the junior high, where her son has been involved in a very public bullying incident — as the bully. Suddenly, the perfect world she's created begins crumbling, and Alice understandably is struggling to hold it together, a process made all the more difficult by her husband's absence (business trip) and some big news her child-psychologist mother is planning on divulging (completely oblivious to how this will affect Alice, of course).

Sometimes dysfunctional family stories can end up over-the-top crazy, with unrealistic problems, wacky solutions, and outsized personalities. Thankfully (and, as a parent of similar-aged kids to Alice's, a bit unsettlingly), West manages realistic people and situations marvelously, with plenty of heart, humor, and life-like parenting frustrations. I absolutely loved this book.

Monday, December 7, 2020

A Burning

 

A Burning / Megha Majumdar, read by a cast, 293 pgs.

Jivan is falsely accused of being involved in a train explosion.  She is arrested but knows justice will prevail. She had been teaching her actress friend, Lovely to speak and read English. Her gym teacher PT Sir is willing to testify on her behalf.  But as her case gains recognition on social media, Lovely and PT Sir's situations change.  They must decide if they want to go against their own good fortune to stand up for Jivan.  Would it even matter if they do?  Will it change the outcome?  This is an interesting contemporary story that shows how quickly things can change and how hard it can be to do the right thing.  Wonderfully read by a full cast that really bring the characters to life.

Wednesday, December 5, 2018

An absolutely remarkable thing

An absolutely remarkable thing / Hank Green, read by Kristen Sieh, 343 pgs.

April May and her art school buddies discover a sculpture of a robot, make a quick movie and post it on social media. Only later does it become apparent that there are LOTS of these robots and nobody knows why they are here and they are definitely NOT an art installation. Social media fame and hilarity ensue. There is no point in doing a more detailed summary because it is a silly plot and silly exchanges among the characters. This book also doesn't help with the question, "Can a man write a convincing female character." Green makes April bi-sexual and lets her treat her girlfriend like crap and behave like a stereotypical guy. Maybe I'm being too harsh on the story but the audio narrator Sieh does a great job and really embodies April May.

Tuesday, October 16, 2018

An Absolutely Remarkable Thing

An Absolutely Remarkable Thing by Hank Green, 343 pages

April May is a 23-year-old New Yorker with a BFA and a job she hates when she stumbles upon a huge robot-like sculpture on the sidewalk. She assumes it's a piece of public art, and calls her friend to film a video of her to post on YouTube. Little does she know that's she's actually discovered one of 64 identical items (the Carls, as they come to be known) that appeared simultaneously around the world, prompting a wide array of responses, from fear to conspiracy theories to academic curiosity.

In his debut novel, Green manages to create a fun and funny, adventure-filled novel that also manages to hit on so many timely topics, including the polarization of debate, fear of the unknown, social media trolls, extremists, the dehumanization of famous people, the rapid news cycle... It's really a great book, one that makes me want to see what else Green comes up with in the future. Though hopefully his next novel won't launch an earworm that will take, by conservative estimations, six years to dislodge itself from my brain. ("Call Me Maybe"? Really, Hank?)

Monday, September 18, 2017

Young Jane Young

Young Jane Young: a Novel / Gabrielle Zevin, 294 pp.

Aviva Grossman is young and a bit adrift when she signs on as an intern for a  married Florida congressman.  They begin an affair, and when it comes to light - big surprise! - it is the 20-year-old woman whose life is destroyed on social media.  Told from the point of view of Aviva's mother, Aviva's daughter Ruby, and, movingly, the congressman's wife, there are plenty of overt references to The Scarlet Letter here. Other reviews I've read celebrate Zevin's challenge to the slut-shamers out there, and rightly so.  But she's a smart writer and creates a well-rounded character in Aviva, one who was young and foolish but not entirely without agency.  Funny and sweet.  Especially recommended to all those who loved The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry.

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Dataclysm: Who We Are (When We Think No One's Looking) / Christian Rudder 300 p.

Thought Gone Girl was a page-turner?  Try Dataclysm!  Truly, I couldn't turn pages fast enough.   Rudder is a mathematician and a co-founder of  dating site OKCupid, and he has a spin on our data that I hadn't heard before: while we're losing privacy every time we click, we're also assembling the first-ever social history that isn't the story of  kings and presidents.  Our Facebook habits, our Tweets, our dating matches are the most democratic means possible to glean what all of us really feel about race, gender, and politics.  Because our online habits are more truthful than what we say about ourselves on surveys (or to our friends, co-workers, and even family members), and because the sheer volume of data is so massive, we can draw conclusions about ourselves at moments in time that are sort of, well, accurate.

To prove his point, Rudder starts with the obvious: a woman's sexual attractiveness to men begins to decline after her 21st birthday (tell us something we don't know, right ladies?).  But by slicing data from OKCupid, Reddit, Craigslist and Google, among others, he shows us who we are in ways that astonish.  Read Dataclysm: Rudder would tell you that we're all the authors of this story.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

To rise again at a decent hour

To rise again at a decent hour / Joshua Ferris 337 pgs.

When I read Ferris' first book, I thought "genius" but when his second came out, I could not relate to it unlike many of my co-workers.  This book, however, solidifies his "genius" standing with me.  I can't praise it enough.  Paul O'Rourke is a dentist in New York and a dedicated Red Sox fan.  What else is he?  Well, an atheist and perhaps a bit to intense in his love affairs.  It isn't just his devotion to the woman he is with, it is his desire to become a family member that make this border on a little creepy.  We meet Dr. O'Rourke as a single man wondering where he fits in.  There is some information that leads us to understand his infatuation with close families.  His dad committed suicide, his mother now dead, he really has no family to speak of.  He is a well respected dentist but he doesn't really "belong."  This book has so many comic elements but is also wonderful with the serious parts.

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