Showing posts with label misunderstandings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label misunderstandings. Show all posts

Saturday, January 14, 2023

The People We Hate at the Wedding


The People We Hate at the Wedding
 by Grant Ginder (2017) 324 pages

Paul and Alice are siblings whose older half-sister, Eloise (who lives in England) is going to get married. Dysfunctional relationships abound in this novel, partly because Eloise's father is quite wealthy, and she has had advantages that her half-siblings have not. Additionally, Paul and his mother are estranged because Paul thinks she disrespected his father after his death by removing all signs of his existence. Paul, who's a social worker, is also struggling with his job, working for an unorthodox researcher. Paul's pompous partner, Mark, seems interested in adding a third party to their relationship, which is another stressor for Paul. Alice has her own issues, being in a relationship with her married boss, plus having a lot of emotional baggage from a previous relationship. Their mother, Donna, has her own somewhat bleak world.

By the time we finally meet the bride, we're already at page 164 and worn out from watching the antics of the others, ready for a more stable person! Eloise might be more stable, and perhaps means well, but watch out!

The story is a strange mingling of the comical and the sad. Do the hilarious bits make up for the painful ones? You'll have to be the judge.

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

The Ghost at the Table

The Ghost at the Table by Suzanne Berne (2006) 304 pages

Imagine a Thanksgiving visit with sisters, Cynnie and Frances, who have very different views about what happened in their childhood, with a seriously ill mother and a father who started an affair with the tutor of one of his daughters while his wife was still alive. As the Thanksgiving visit--which includes their now frail father-- progresses, the story makes multiple passes to the time of the mother's death, with suggestions that perhaps it wasn't entirely natural that it occurred when it did.

About forty pages before the end of the book, I abruptly decided that I didn't like any of the characters anymore.

However...there are many moments of lucidity and insight in Cynnie's narration. This novel is layered like an onion, with bottled emotions, shouting, misunderstandings and deception...and maybe even a bit of caring...peeling off in turns.